Published in Kathmandu post (Feb.19, 2015) after few edits.
The tendency of getting
late has always been very popular in our context. Nepali time is the very
famous phrase from the time I remember. This habit of ours has become a culture
which everyone is well acquainted about and most of the people are the firm
follower of this culture. Flexibility can be the synonym of this culture we are
developing among ourselves.
In case, if any program
has to be organized then the organizers tend to call people before time in the
hope that people might come in the exact time. for example if any activity has
to be conducted at 10 a.m. then people are informed to come at 9 a.m. but the
organizers are also compelled to do that because of the circumstances around
i.e. if people are informed to come at certain time, they are almost 1 hour
late. Actually everyone is affected by this habit we are developing. People who
are die-hard follower of the Nepali time themselves and others who are not the
follower of such habit.
There are a group of
people who actually are blind followers of this culture whereas others who
believe that time is a boon and is supposed to be used properly. Those groups
of people who show up in time loose an hour or so. Then one who shows up in
time slowly changes into the follower of so called Nepali time. The connotation
Nepali time itself so embarrassing. A person gets late and names it as Nepali
time which is the shame on that individual, using the name of country in such
mistake of oneself. We are the one following such malpractice and the name of
country is misused which shows our uncivilized civilization.
Again this culture has
been injected in our minds and we are transferring this tendency to our juniors
as well. We are teaching younger minds to get late from our actions. This habit
will lead to the lack of realization regarding the importance of time. There
are various consequences of this malpractice. This practice shows the lack of
development among us but we are so much into this habit of getting late and
naming it Nepali time so change is difficult but then it has to happen and one
of the reason we fall behind in this competitive world is that we are firm
believer of Nepali time. In this competitive era, an individual must be able to
do the best use of time but then wasting the time of oneself and even others is
not justified.
Hypothetical example:
If a person has to
attend any international conference but that person shows up in so called
Nepali time then what might be the impression upon the other people regarding
our country and that person.
Showing up in Nepali
time has been so common that people think that they are cool when they are
late, apologizing is far away, but this is the bad habit which has been
effecting many people in our society. The thing is it seems so genuine and okay
to be late that none of us sees this habit as the infecting one. We are so
habitual to be late and see others being late that getting late does not seem
to be a problem but this habit is not letting us go in any positive direction
rather we are pushing ourselves back. Lastly, time is money supposed to be used
wisely and surely let’s not waste time of someone else at least.
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